Dear Ex

I got inspired by this trending topic in Twitter yesterday. Who would have known that the first thing that will greet me Facebook will be a message from an ex?

Dear Ex,

In all honesty, I'd like us to be friends.

However, if being friends with you will cause issues with your current girlfriend who stole you from me, I'd rather not be friends with you.

For one, I have ultimate respect on relationships.

So, really, even if it would be nice to get even for once, I'd rather not do it.

Despite of whatever past we had, we may have some similarities in our life. We both have a son and we're both not married.

Well, these are the only facts I know. I didn't keep tabs on you anymore.

In all honesty, I am all for friendship. Remember, I even took the initiative to add you up. Nevertheless, you didn't confirm my invite. But rather, you sent me a message using a different account telling me that you can't add me because you're current flame/mother of your kid will get jealous.

Well, my dear, I don't want to burst your bubble. As much as I would like to be friends with you again and know how you're doing in your state of affairs right now, I'd rather not do it.

I have no intentions on becoming friends with benefits with you nor hide in the shadows of whatever account you have.

And really, even if I just got out of a painful relationship, I will NOT for the life of me need a man for the sake of having one.

Or to get revenge to the other person who caused me harm.

I am not desperate. (like other women are..)

Or say that we really loved each other before.. that I will fight for you whatever it takes.. (even if I will step on people's toes.. hell, I'm single.. and you're not married, I don't care even if you live together)

Even if I'm 30 and I have an almost 5 year old son, I don't feel I need another man to complete me.

I'm fabulous as I am. Because really, I don't feel expired.

I can live my life without a man.

So let's just keep it this way. I'd rather be at peace.. with myself, with my son and with the world.

And truth is, even if I loved you way back when, I'll be truly happy for you even more if you give the same value and respect to your own little family.

So please dear ex, kindly understand that by doing this, I'm saving a family.. married or not with the mother of your kid, know your responsibilities, own up to it and become a good father and good "husband".


Sincerely,